Forget Small Talk. Try This Instead

Published: May 25, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Let’s be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” vibes. Today, we’re sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe.

These aren’t your typical icebreakers. One minute you’re ranking your top values, the next you’re arguing (respectfully!) over whether a $3,000 mattress is worth the splurge. And in the process, you’re learning how someone thinks, what they prioritize, and how they deal with pressure or disagreement.

The best part? You might learn a few things about yourself too. Because compatibility isn’t just about knowing the other person, it’s also about understanding what matters to you.

So if you’re navigating the courting world and want less awkwardness, more depth, and maybe a few laughs along the way, this episode’s for you.

Curious to try these games yourself? The Compatibility Challenge lives here: Amazon.

Episode chapters

[0:00] Introduction to Assessing Compatibility
[3:06] The Compatibility Challenge Origins
[7:58] Game 1: Ranking Your Values
[19:18] Game 2: Building Your Dream House
[25:00] Game 3: Journey of Life Obstacles
[34:00] Final Thoughts and Resources Available