Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: September 5, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

How long should the talking stage really last? For many Muslims, what starts as a way to assess compatibility drags on for months or even years with no real progress. In this episode we dive into the question every single faces: when does talking cross the line from intentional to wasted time? We explore why so many get stuck, the signs it has gone on too long, and how to know when it’s time to move forward or move on. If you’ve ever felt trapped in endless conversations with no clarity, this episode is your wake-up call.

Check out thie short video on “Halal Dating”.

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Episode chapters

[0:00] The Talking Stage Dilemma
[5:16] Why People Drag Out Courting
[11:07] Halal Dating vs. Islamic Courting
[15:50] Four Essential Boundaries for Courting
[21:17] Finding the Right Timeline
[26:12] Red Flags and Time Wasters
[31:50] Practical Advice and Family Involvement