Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: October 31, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Most single people think parenting is a future problem, something to worry about after having children. But the truth is, the way you’ll handle kids one day is already showing up in how you argue, apologize, or deal with stress today. The problem isn’t the kids, it’s us. How we handle emotions, set boundaries, and respond to conflict often reflects patterns from our own upbringing.

On this episode we’re hosting parenting coach Maysaa Fahour to explore why learning about parenting early makes all the difference. It’s not about kids yet, it’s about understanding yourself, spotting your patterns, and seeing how you might show up as a spouse. Press play to explore parenting as a mirror for who you are and who you’ll become.

Connect with Coach Maysaa on Instagram

Email: maysaa.fahour@coacheq.com.au

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Episode chapters

[0:00] Meet Mayssa And Her Aha Moment
[2:35] Why Pre‑Marriage And Pre‑Parent Training Matter
[5:10] Triggers, Inner Child, And Attachment
[8:30] Parenting Styles And Emotional Intelligence
[11:20] Meltdowns, Options, And Staying Regulated
[14:25] Entitlement, Consistency, And Repair
[17:08] Red Flags And Flexible Mindsets
[19:10] Schooling, Environment, And Values
[22:30] Gender Roles, Personalities, And Boundaries
[25:05] Fear Vs Confidence In Faith And Culture
[27:10] Emotional Regulation Without Suppression
[29:20] Modeling EQ And Avoiding Overthinking
[31:05] Nature, Nurture, And Parenting The Child Present
[33:00] Screens, Dosage, And Choosing Battles
[35:05] Transformations, Ultimatums, And Strong‑Willed Kids
[37:20] Under Twos: Guide, Childproof, Say Less
[39:15] How To Work With Mesa And Closing