Misyar Marriage: A Lifeline Or A Loophole?

Published: April 25, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Misyar marriage—halal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars aren’t exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loophole—and why that’s a problem. With shifting gender roles and evolving needs, Misyar is becoming more common, but is it the right move? We get into the real talk: when it works, when it hurts, and what to know before diving in

Episode chapters

[0:16] Introduction to Misyar Marriage
[1:43] What is Misyar Marriage?
[3:21] Islamic Perspectives on Misyar
[4:58] Exploring Scenarios: Who Might Choose Misyar
[11:55] Red Flags and Manipulation
[19:46] Why Misyar Emerged in Muslim Communities
[26:56] Advice for Those Considering Misyar
[32:11] Final Thoughts on Misyar Marriages