Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: June 13, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

This week, psychotherapist Aiah Neamatallah joins us to talk about what many converts face after the shahada, especially when it comes to marriage, from feeling caught between two worlds to navigating power dynamics in relationships. We dig into what converts should know before getting married, what born Muslims and their parents often overlook, and how communities can do better. Whether you’re a convert, marrying one, or just curious, this episode is packed with honesty, empathy, and practical takeaways.

To connect with Aiah and other amazing counselors go to: https://muslimcounselling.ca/

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Episode chapters

[0:00] Welcome to Diary of a Matchmaker
[1:29] Introducing Aya Nirmatullah: Psychotherapist
[4:32] Struggles of Converts in Muslim Communities
[8:27] Marriage Challenges for Muslim Converts
[14:04] Marriage Advice and Prevention of Pitfalls
[21:17] Supporting Converts: Community Responsibilities
[27:09] Positive Initiatives and Final Thoughts