Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: July 11, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Most single people are laser-focused on spotting red flags, but what if that mindset is holding you back? In this episode we flip the script and talk about green flags that often go unnoticed but are key to a successful marriage. From apologizing without a “but” to the ability to disagree without drama, we share nine underrated traits that matter way more than height or income. If you are tired of matching and mismatching for all the wrong reasons, this one is for you. It might just change how you see the search for love.

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Episode chapters

[0:00] Welcome to Diary of a Matchmaker
[4:20] Red Flags vs Green Flags Mindset
[9:45] Understanding What Green Flags Look Like
[17:57] Rapid Fire: Flag Ratings
[25:00] Building Your Ideal Spouse
[32:31] Closing Thoughts on Finding Value

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