Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: August 29, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Childbirth talk when you’re single? Awkward. “Not for public discussion”? Maybe. “Only for women”? Definitely what most people think. But here’s the truth: understanding this journey before marriage could transform your future relationship. In this episode, we chat with certified doula Hebaa Rizeq about why pregnancy prep isn’t just a “married women’s issue.” From faith-meets-science insights to the overlooked role of men in birth, this conversation breaks taboos in the best way. If you’re single, curious, and maybe a little skeptical, this one’s for you.

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Episode chapters

[0:00] Introduction to Diary of a Matchmaker
[0:48] Meet Hiba: Doula and Childbirth Educator
[2:45] Role of a Doula vs Medical Professionals
[5:17] Common Misconceptions About Childbirth
[10:46] The Islamic Approach to Childbirth
[15:29] Building Strong Marital Bonds Through Birth
[21:40] Preparing Your Body: An Amana from Allah
[29:20] Understanding Birth Interventions and Medications
[35:16] Building Your Village and Support System
[39:53] Discussing Family Planning Before Marriage

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