Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: October 3, 2025
with Hiba & Zaid

Most couples obsess over the wedding details: venues, flowers, guest lists… but skip the one step that actually prepares you for marriage. We know because we skipped it too. And trust us, it’s a mistake we don’t want you to make.

Today we sit down with psychotherapist Hina Mirza to uncover why premarital counseling isn’t some boring checklist, it’s the ultimate hack for a smoother, happier marriage. Think of it as marriage prep you’ll actually enjoy: decoding communication, spotting blind spots, and setting up love to last. If you think you know what premarital counseling is, think again. This is the one thing EVERY couple needs before saying “I do.”

Connect with Hina on Instagram at @hinamirza

Episode chapters

[0:00] Setting the Stage & Guest Intro
[2:40] Why Premarital Counseling Is Rising
[5:00] Islamic Roots of Seeking Counsel
[6:25] Normalizing Counseling for Couples
[12:10] Wedding Stress, Honeymoons, and Triggers
[18:25] What Compatibility Counseling Looks Like
[23:05] Core Premarital Tools
[29:15] Avoiding Overanalysis and Red Flags
[34:05] Money, In-Laws, Intimacy: The Tough One
[39:20] Trust, Tawakkul, and Financial Boundaries
[43:10] Parents’ Role and Openness to Counseling
[49:00] When One Partner Resists Help
[55:10] Apps, Matching, and Walking Away Well
[1:00:00] Intimacy Education with Modesty