Diary of a Matchmaker

Published: January 2, 2026
with Hiba & Zaid

Moving for marriage can feel like stepping off a cliff with a parachute you packed in the dark. In this episode, we talk honestly about what that leap actually takes, beyond romance and optimism. Hiba shares her journey from Palestine to Canada and what she’d do differently now, while we unpack the questions single Muslims need to ask before relocating.

We get real about red indicators like spiritualized pressure and vague promises, and green ones like clear plans, financial transparency, and real community support. We also talk careers, power dynamics, and the emotional cost of starting over. Faith matters, but so does tying your camel. If relocation is on your radar, this conversation might change how you think about it.

Click here to download the free Relocation Decision Checklist.

Check out our interview with The Digital Sisterhood podcast here.

Episode chapters

[0:00] Shoutout And Episode Setup
[0:43] Why Relocation Matters Now
[2:02] Hiba’s Leap From Palestine To Canada
[4:09] What We Didn’t Ask And Why It Matters
[9:14] Careers, Credentials, And Starting Over
[12:20] Risk, Faith, And False Choices
[15:00] Power Imbalance And Due Diligence
[18:05] Red Flags, Green Flags, Real Plans
[24:00] Don’t Weaponize Spirituality
[31:00] Preparation Tips For Potential Movers